Resident Stories: Wisdom Worth Sharing
Resident Stories: Wisdom Worth Sharing
Over 30 years of serving older adults, we’ve learned that real wisdom takes time. And our Pearls of Wisdom series celebrates the people who know that best: Atria residents. From practical advice to life-changing perspectives, browse our collection of resident stories and discover insights for a rich life.
Overcome Your Gremlins
Lynn says we all have gremlins – those voices in our head that hold us back from living fully. She was 72 when she finally learned to let go of her own, and she says the experience was transformational. “I finally realized, ‘I’m free, I can do whatever I want.’” Lynn says. “But it took long enough.”
Live, Laugh – Relax
After 54 years of marriage and a career writing about family dynamics, Sally has one piece of advice: Keep your sense of humor.
“Things will come up that don’t seem so funny at the time,” she admits. “But if you can laugh about it, life will be better.”
Yours, Mine and Ours
After 64 years together, Dr. Ben and Dr. Elizabeth reveal the secret to a happy marriage: Share your joy, keep your independence and give the benefit of the doubt.
Generosity Is for the Giver
As a physics professor, Dr. Shyamalendu says most important lessons in his life didn’t come from a book. Whether he’s having lunch with friends or helping family, he says generosity, kindness and staying connected are the foundation of a full life.
No Regrets
“I’ve made so many mistakes I couldn’t count them,” Susan says. “But I keep looking forward.” As an international entrepreneur, Susan knows the only way to grow is to learn from your mistakes and not be held back by them.
The Art of Joy
Bhanu has spent her life cultivating joy in everyday moments. From morning prayers to impromptu dance parties, she says dedication to the things that bring you joy is the best way to bring joy to others.
Kindness Is Key
At 94, Edna knows that success isn’t measured in accomplishments – it’s measured in the care we show one another. Whether she was looking out for her students in the classroom or accepting the kindness of a stranger, for Edna, these generous acts are what make a good life.
Listen Up
With decades of human resources experience under his belt, Stanley has found that the best way to connect, learn and grow is to stay present and listen to those around you. “If you don’t listen when someone speaks,” he says, “you’re not going to know who they are.”
Get Outside Yourself
Whether you ask questions, adventure beyond your comfort zone or just imagine what others are going through, Marcia suggests trying on another perspective now and then. “I believe life becomes richer,” she says, “when we start paying attention to others.”
Find Joy in Others
Growing up in post-war Germany, Karin didn’t have it easy. But she did learn to appreciate what she had: the friends and family around her. Today, connecting with others is still her greatest joy.
Connection Is the Cure
After a lifetime caring for others, Dr. Mohamad, a retired pediatric oncologist, has learned that tolerance and respect are the best medicine for a meaningful life.
Looking for a little free advice?
We’ve got you covered. From coast to coast, Atria residents are sharing their hard-earned wisdom. Call 1-844-HEAR-A-PEARL to hear more pearls from Atria’s wisest.